Alcohol in recovery is a topic I’ve been meaning to tackle for awhile and a question I get frequently on social media and during my one-on-one sessions with clients. Is it safe to drink in recovery? How does alcohol fit in my meal plan? How do I navigate alcohol and intuitive eating? After a little bit of thought, I’ve decided I’m going to break this down into two posts: the first (the one you’re reading right now!) will address alcohol specifically in the context of eating disorder recovery and the second (which will be published next week) will address alcohol in the context of intuitive eating. Although there are many similarities, there are some nuances between the two that I think are worth distinguishing between.Read More
Recently, I was talking to a client in eating disorder recovery (of note, all of this is being shared with her permission) who reported feeling really frustrated that so many non-diet dietitians are sharing messages on Instagram about trusting your body and having bodily autonomy while also being recommended by her treatment team (myself included) to eat more consistently. “Y’all need to make up your minds” she said (half) jokingly.
And to be fair, I get where she’s coming from. I am one of the many dietitians talking about body trust, body autonomy, and body liberation on social media. So many of us are practically shouting it from the rooftops - because we steadfastly believe in it for everyone, full stop. We believe that everyone gets to make choices about their body, their health care, their food, their movement.Read More
A conversation I’ve been having with clients a lot lately (and frankly, have quite a bit) is about the scale. It’s actually become one of the first questions I ask people during their initial assessments - “do you own a scale? What do you do with that information?” Because I find that oftentimes, the scale plays a pretty significant role in a person’s eating disorder or as a trigger for disordered behaviors. And it turns out (as a surprise to probably no one), I am not a huge advocate of having a scale in the house or regularly using a scale in any way. Before we get into it, I want to acknowledge that it is possible to view weight as neutral and if you’re a person who can step on the scale, not judge the outcome, and move on with your day, that’s great (although I might ask what value this brings to your life). But in my experience, the scale brings up a lot for people and doesn’t provide them with much in return. Which is why I decided to craft this piece for all those people who might be feeling like they’re in an unhealthy relationship with their scale. Consider this your permission slip to throw it out. Toss it. Smash it with a hammer.Read More